When the Intention Isn’t Right, But the Association Is!

Jul 20, 2025


When the Intention Isn’t Right, But the Association Is!

Exploring the power of Sādhu-saṅga

The company we keep can shape the course of our lives—this is especially true on the path of devotion. Sādhu-saṅga—the association of sincere devotees—is a priceless gift, a divine catalyst that awakens love for Lord Kṛṣṇa and invites His mercy to flow into our hearts. As repeatedly declared in the scriptures and experienced by innumerable devotees in the history, sādhu-saṅga is the lifeline of spiritual life.

But here’s a question worth pondering: what happens when such saintly association is approached without sincerity or reverence—when it's tainted by material motives, inner resistance, or even envy? Can the presence of a devotee still touch the heart of someone who isn’t quite ready? Can even a reluctant or unintended encounter with a saintly soul open the door to transformation? Or might it cause more harm than good?

Our sacred scriptures address these complexities with grace and depth. Ambitious princes, cruel hunters, venomous snakes, and even degraded prostitutes were transformed by the power of sādhu-saṅga—directly or indirectly—even when they neither desired nor deserved such mercy.

Let us explore these stories not merely to admire the transformation of others, but to reflect on how we, too, can humbly approach this sacred gift of sādhu-saṅga.

1. An Innocent Woman Attains Spiritual Perfection

The Śrīmad Bhāgavatam reveals a deeply moving truth: even when one approaches a saintly soul with material desires, their purity can still uplift and transform the seeker. This is powerfully illustrated in the words of Devahūti, spoken to her husband Kardama Muni:

saṅgo yaḥ saṁsṛter hetur asatsu vihito ’dhiyā
sa eva sādhuṣu kṛto niḥsaṅgatvāya kalpate

‘Association aimed at sense gratification is certainly the cause of bondage. But the same association, when directed toward saintly persons, leads to liberation—even if done unknowingly.’ (SB 3.23.55)

Kardama Muni, the son of Lord Brahmā, performed intense devotional austerities and meditated on Lord Viṣṇu for 10,000 years, and ultimately attained the Lord’s darśana and blessings. He later married Devahūti, the noble daughter of Svāyambhuva Manu. Before their marriage, Kardama clearly stated that he would remain with her only until she bore children, after which he would renounce worldly life—a condition Devahūti and her family humbly accepted.

After marriage, Devahūti served Kardama Muni with unwavering dedication, neglecting her own physical comfort. Touched by her sincerity, Kardama told her, “Because of your pure-hearted service, you shall receive the results of my spiritual practices. I bless you with freedom from fear and sorrow, and divine love for the Lord.”

Without undergoing penance like her husband, Devahūti received immense spiritual blessings—simply through sincere service. Such is the grace of true saints: like a lamp lighting many others without diminishing itself, their blessings elevate others far beyond what could be earned through personal effort.

Yet in her innocence, Devahūti wasn’t ready to receive spiritual perfection. Instead, she gently expressed an apparently worldly desire: “I wish for a child.” But this too was part of the divine plan—for through her, the Supreme Lord would descend as Lord Kapila.

By Kardama’s mystic power, Devahūti gave birth to nine beautiful daughters. As promised, Kardama prepared to leave home. Moved by emotion, Devahūti softly lamented, “You offered me eternal love for the Lord, but I asked for fleeting joys. Still, let the affection I have for you free me from fear. The association of a saint, even in ignorance, must lead to liberation.” (SB 3.23.54–55)

Hearing Devahūti’s heartfelt words, Kardama stayed a little longer. In due course, Lord Kapila, an incarnation of Lord Viṣṇu, was born. After entrusting Devahūti to the care of their divine son, Kardama renounced family life and departed for the spiritual world. Later, Devahūti received profound spiritual instructions from Lord Kapila and attained spiritual perfection.

Mother Devahūti’s statement in the quoted verse is vividly affirmed in several inspiring examples, as illustrated below.

2. An Ambitious Prince Attains the Lord’s Darshan 

Dhruva, a five-year-old prince, was deeply hurt when his stepmother insulted him and forbade him from sitting on his father's lap. Burning with anger and a desire for revenge, he resolved to attain a position greater than even that of Lord Brahmā. With this ambition, he left for the forest to worship Lord Vāsudeva.

There, he encountered Nārada Muni, who advised him to let go of his anger and return home. But Dhruva, determined to fulfill his material desires, insisted that Nārada show him a way forward. Far from being offended by Dhruva’s refusal, Nārada appreciated the boy’s unwavering resolve and chose to redirect it towards devotion (bhakti). With compassion, he gave Dhruva the mantra—“oṁ namo bhagavate vāsudevāya”—and instructed him to chant it in the sacred land of Vṛndāvana.

Following these instructions with sincerity, Dhruva worshipped the Lord with intense devotion and, within just six months, attained the darśana of Lord Viṣṇu. The Lord, pleased with Dhruva’s devotion, not only granted him a spiritual planet to reside in but also fulfilled his material desires.

However, by this time, Dhruva’s heart was transformed by his sincere following of Narada Muni’s instructions. All his earlier anger and material ambitions melted away. Regretful of his past desires, he gave up all resentment toward his stepmother.

Such is the power of sādhu-saṅga—a saintly person like Nārada can redirect even material motivations into the path of pure devotion, ultimately leading to spiritual perfection. Just as fire burns whether one touches it knowingly or not, the company of a saint purifies—whether we are aware or unaware, ready or not.

3. A Prostitute Becomes a Pure Vaiṣṇavī

Here is yet another and even more powerful example of the transformative power of sādhu-saṅga.

In the village of Benāpola, Nāmācārya Haridāsa Ṭhākura was revered for his saintly character, boundless humility, and unwavering commitment to chanting the Hare Kṛṣṇa mahāmantra. But not everyone appreciated his fame. Driven by envy, a man named Rāmacandra Khān devised a cruel scheme to tarnish Haridāsa’s reputation. He sent a prostitute to seduce and discredit him publicly.

One night, the woman entered Haridāsa’s hut, pretending to seek pleasure. Haridāsa, undisturbed, replied, “I have a vow to complete a certain number of rounds of chanting. Once I finish, I’ll speak with you.”

She waited all night but Haridāsa never stopped chanting. She returned the next night—and again heard the same reply. And again, on the third night.

But something unexpected was unfolding. Without any philosophical lecture, moral reprimand, or scriptural discussion—simply by being in the presence of a pure devotee and hearing the holy name—her heart began to change. What began with deceit turned into a deep spiritual awakening. The sound of harināma, the atmosphere of purity, and Haridāsa’s serene devotion melted her hardened heart.

At last, she fell at his feet and confessed everything. Haridāsa gently said, “I knew who sent you. I had thought of leaving this place, but I stayed—just for you.”

No anger, no pride, no condemnation—only compassion. This is the heart of a true Vaiṣṇava—seeing no enemies, only souls waiting to be uplifted. Even someone caught in sin is not beyond redemption when touched by such mercy.

Haridāsa mercifully instructed her to renounce her sinful profession, surrender to Kṛṣṇa, serve Tulasī Mahārāṇī and chant the holy names. He took no credit, saying simply, “I have lived in this hut. Now, you may stay here,” and quietly departed.

She shaved her head, donned simple clothes, and began sincerely chanting the Hare Kṛṣṇa mahāmantra. Her transformation was so profound that even other devotees began to seek her blessings. This is the power of sādhu-saṅga. A pure heart filled with devotion can awaken dormant spirituality in others.

We may carry doubts, regrets, and shortcomings, and feel unworthy at times. But this sacred pastime reminds us: no one is too fallen. No one is beyond redemption when touched by the mercy of a true devotee.

4. A Python Purified and Liberated

Another striking example of the Lord’s mercy upon those connected to His devotees is seen in the story of Aghāsura.

Aghāsura, a gigantic python demon, came to Vṛndāvana with a deadly plan—not just to kill Kṛṣṇa, but also all His cowherd friends and calves. Taking the form of an enormous serpent, eight miles long, Aghāsura lay down on the forest path with his mouth gaping wide like a cave.

The innocent gopas mistook the python’s body for a beautiful cave and, attracted by the sight, playfully entered along with their calves. Kṛṣṇa wanted to stop them, but they had already gone inside. Aghāsura, waiting for Kṛṣṇa, did not immediately close his mouth—he wanted to swallow them all together.

Invincible Kṛṣṇa then entered the demon’s mouth. Expanding Himself within Aghāsura’s throat, Kṛṣṇa blocked the demon’s breathing. Suffocated and overwhelmed, his breath stopped, his eyes bulged, and his soul burst out from the top of his head, hovering in the sky before merging into Kṛṣṇa’s divine body.

Meanwhile, Kṛṣṇa glanced at His unconscious friends and calves—who had collapsed from the poisonous fumes—and revived them with His merciful glance.

Although Aghāsura had come with murderous intent, Kṛṣṇa granted him liberation. Because even unintentionally, Aghāsura gave pleasure to the Lord’s devotees—his tongue became a playful path, and his body, after death, a playground for the Vrajavāsīs.

Even an enemy of the Lord, if somehow connected to the Lord’s pleasure or His devotees, can be purified and delivered. Such is the limitless mercy of Kṛṣṇa.

5. A Venomous Snake Becomes a Humble Servant

In the forest of Vrindavan, young Kṛṣṇa leapt into the poisoned waters of the Yamuna to confront Kāliya, a venomous serpent who had made the river his home. Kṛṣṇa didn’t aim to destroy Kāliya, but to purify him—both externally and internally. For a full muhūrta (48 minutes), Kāliya arrested Kṛṣṇa in his coils, in other words the serpent embraced the Lord tightly, an experience of intimacy few could only imagine. Later, Kṛṣṇa released Himself from the serpent’s coils and subdued him, and started danced upon his innumerable hoods, allowing Kāliya to receive the dust of His lotus feet.

What a great fortune? - Embracing the Lord for 48 minutes and receiving the dust of His lotus feet upon his heads! One might assume such direct contact with the Lord would be enough for Kaliya to attain complete perfection. Yet, Kāliya's true deliverance came only through the heartfelt prayers of his noble wives, the Nāgapatnīs. It was their humility, devotion, and sincere appeal that touched Kṛṣṇa’s heart and secured Kāliya’s forgiveness and release.

This episode reveals a profound truth: even being physically close to Kṛṣṇa does not guarantee His full mercy if the heart lacks the right disposition. Kāliya’s transformation was completed only when the Lord’s devotees intervened on his behalf and offered well-wishing prayers.

Kṛṣṇa’s mercy flows most freely through His devotees. To approach Him directly without valuing or honoring His devotees doesn’t please the Lord. Without sādhu-saṅga (the association of saints) and sādhu-kṛpā (their blessings), our relationship with Kṛṣṇa remains fragile and partial.

6. Power of Connection with a Devotee

Sārvabhauma Bhaṭṭācārya was a renowned devotee of Lord Caitanya Mahāprabhu in Jagannātha Purī. On one occasion, his son-in-law, Amogha, harshly criticized and offended Lord Caitanya. As a consequence of his offense, Amogha was afflicted with cholera.

Hearing of this, Lord Caitanya immediately went to Amogha’s home and, by His merciful touch, not only cured him of the disease but also purified his heart of the offensive mentality. The Lord explained that it was only because of Amogha’s connection with His dear devotee, Sārvabhauma, that He was showing such mercy and forgiving all his offenses.

Lord Caitanya declared:

"sārvabhauma-gṛhe dāsa-dāsī ye kukkura
seha mora priya, anya jana rahu dūra"

"Everyone in Sārvabhauma Bhaṭṭācārya’s house is very dear to Me—including his maids, servants, and even his dog. And what to speak of his relatives?"

This reveals the extraordinary value the Lord places on those who are even indirectly connected to His devotees.

But what does this really mean? Can we simply associate with a devotee and continue holding on to material desires, poor character, or whimsical behavior—thinking that connection with a devotee alone is enough? Let’s explore this further.

Grace Beyond Worthiness

The Seventh Canto of the Śrīmad Bhāgavatam reveals a profound truth: if someone intensely meditates on the Lord—even with negative emotions like envy, fear, or hatred—the Lord still grants them liberation, if their negative emotion leads to intense absorption in remembering the Lord. Such is the extent of His mercy. Śiśupāla constantly thought of Kṛṣṇa with hatred. Hiraṇyakaśipu and Hiraṇyākṣa despised Him. Kaṁsa lived in fear of Him. Yet all were liberated, not because of their intentions, but because their minds were deeply and continuously absorbed in the Lord.

Absorption in the Lord—even if triggered by negativity—can attract His mercy. Similarly, prolonged association with a devotee, even if initially fueled by malice or envy, can eventually purify the heart and lead to divine grace.

However, this is not a path to imitate. One cannot intentionally offend or hate a devotee hoping to be delivered. These are rare exceptions. If one's negativity lacks the deep absorption of Śiśupāla or Kaṁsa, the result is not liberation—but suffering.

Far better is the path of humble service and sincere association. Let us not approach sādhu-saṅga carelessly, but with reverence, gratitude, and an open heart. So, lets hold tightly to the feet of devotees—with all our hearts. Whether they walk among us today or speak through the timeless words of scripture, lets seek their shelter, hear their prayers and learn from their lives. Let their devotion awaken ours.

Because in the journey of life, it is not brilliance, strength, or status that leads us home—it is sincerity.

Even if our intentions are not fully pure, if we humbly serve and stay close to the devotees, our hearts will change. Gradually, our lower desires will give way to divine longing. And one day—almost without realizing it—we too will stand at the doorstep of spiritual perfection, with love for Kṛṣṇa blooming in our hearts.

That is our hope. That is our home.

But the discussion doesn’t end here!

We Were Uplifted—Now It's Our Turn

So far, we have discussed the incredible potency of sādhu-saṅga—the association of saintly devotees—in spiritually uplifting even those who approach with impure intentions. This is a profound lesson for everyone practicing Kṛṣṇa consciousness.

As sādhakas, or practitioners on the path of bhakti, we must strive to cultivate saintly character and deep devotion to the Lord—in other words, we must endeavor to become sādhus. When common people come to us seeking sādhu-saṅga, it is our responsibility to offer them uplifting association that inspires them spiritually and positively transforms their lives. Our presence should benefit them—even if they come with poor character or wrong intentions.

Of course, it can be challenging to deal with those who approach us with negative mindsets. Still, a sincere spiritual practitioner must learn to be kind, tolerant, and compassionate—while safeguarding ourselves from them. A sādhu maintains integrity by not harboring grudges, envy, or malice, even toward those who act wrongly. Instead, they act as true well-wishers, desiring the spiritual welfare of all, sincerely trying to help others on their spiritual path, and praying to Kṛṣṇa for their upliftment.

It is this desire, this endeavor, and this prayer of a sādhu that can help those suffering in material existence come closer to the spiritual path.

The true ornaments of a sādhu are their saintly qualities. Only when we develop sādhu-lakṣaṇas—such as compassion, gratitude, humility, tolerance, non-enviousness, contentment, and respect—can we offer genuine sādhu-saṅga. Only then can our association deeply touch hearts and spiritually transform lives. If we ourselves lack sādhutva or saintliness, how can we expect our presence to uplift others? One cannot offer what one does not possess.

In this sacred service of guiding others to Kṛṣṇa, we must also remain humble. Humility is an integral part of saintly character. We should never think of ourselves as the doers or originators of compassion. We are simply instruments—channels for the compassion of Kṛṣṇa and the great ācāryas. As representatives and servants of Guru and Kṛṣṇa, we are meant to offer spiritual association in a way that heals and uplifts—not in a way that adds to the frustration already inflicted by material energy.

The tolerant, forgiving, accommodating, and well-wishing nature of a sādhu is the only hope for the conditioned souls. We ourselves were once uplifted by sādhu-saṅga—and that is why we are now on the spiritual path. If we fail to extend the same compassionate association to newcomers—despite their countless faults—how can we expect the society of devotees to grow and thrive?

A vibrant and flourishing devotional society can only be built on the foundation of personal integrity and saintly character.